CANCELED PARENTS

This email was sent March 3, 2021 to the principal of DeLaire High School. To be fair she did give us a call, even if she did not do anything to help us. This is the exact words, only the phone number is omitted, and the names and places are changed to protect identities. Ms. Swartz- We have reason to believe Dara Colt invited our daughter Elizabeth Barre, a former student, to live in her home. The circumstances are suspicious. The fact that she blatantly lied when confronted is very concerning. We have contacted law enforcement, they are aware of the situation. We also intend to notify the superintendent.  We are concerned for the safety and wellbeing of our daughter, and other students. If she has done this to our daughter, who is to say she is not communicating unprofessionally with other students. Andrew Barre Abigal Barre cellphone numbers were provided

  Here are are 3 very real actual emails we sent to Mrs. Dara Colt that went unanswered. We Changed the names. Did Mrs. Colt ignore us because she had plans to adopt our daughter? Did Dara Colt plan to adopt our daughter from the beginning? Please have Elizabeth  get in touch with her mom & dad. we have no other way to get in touch with our daughter.  Thanks! Could you please tell Elizabeth that her MOM & DAD love her? Can you please tell our daughter that her MOM & DAD miss her? Can you please tell Elizabeth to call home? As you know, we have no other way to contact her. THANKS! Dear Mrs. Colt , We understand you may not have children of your own, and may lack the understanding of how parents think and feel. Most parents would find it alarming that you had a secret relationship with their daughter or son. Most parents would find it alarming that you wanted to keep the relationship a secret.  Most parents who have a son or daughter would find it alarming when the

 Our daughter's relationship with Dara Colt, DeLaire High School teacher in GA began the day she stepped foot into her classroom. My daughter's relationship with her former high school teacher did not begin after she turned 18! When my daughter was first in Dara Colt's class she didn't like her. I told my daughter not to be judgmental, give her a chance.  My daughter, Elizabeth ended up admiring Dara Colt. When it came time for us to move in 2018, I sent Dara Colt an email, letting her know that our daughter admired her, could she tell her goodbye? Dara Colt  gave my daughter a note and a book. I thought that was sweet. The relationship should have ended there, or at least that is what I thought as a parent.  We believed that was the end of Dara Colt. Anything beyond that point without our knowledge or consent was violating our boundaries. Anything beyond that point we believe is not only immoral, unhealthy but also unethical. Only Margie Swartz the DeLaire High School

   Nothing happy and uplifting about being estranged from your adult child. All you can do is say you love your child, try to reach out but you can't force them to contact you, tell you what is going on in their life.  Trying to do what I believed was right as a parent, I added my daughter to my health, vision and dental insurance policy. I thought it could possibly be helpful to Elizabeth, even if she doesn't speak to us. I thought she may find the benefits helpful.  Well it came time to verify my dependents. I was required to provide a copy of Elizabeth's birth certificate. Sounds simple and easy enough. Only Elizabeth took her birth certificate and social security card with her, but left her license. Somehow that was planned. Someone in a hurry to leave doesn't take a birth certificate do they? I wasn't able to get off work, so I asked my husband to go get a copy of her birth certificate, it was $25. He went to get the birth certificate, and they told him it did

  Estrangement has become trendy. There is no shortage of social media platforms encouraging and giving approval for young adults to become estranged from their parents. There are rules and examples of how to go no contact. Like the pied Piper of Hamlin if you play the right tune (frequency) they will fall in line or follow right along. The young are vulnerable, they are easy targets.   People are mesmerized by those trending videos, Instagram photos and those popular on  social media platforms. They are popular so people follow blindly ignoring the facts.  People want to be more like them, not lookin at the consequences of how they are hurting others or even how they are losing their self, losing their own identity. People join cults, gangs, follow drug dealers, sell their bodies for sex, no shortage of how people are convinced to change their lives, not always for the better doing things they never thought they would do.  Getting canceled is easy. Anyone not in agreement with someone

 We reached out to Dara Colt many times, we sent many emails that went unanswered. We didn't understand we considered teachers to be trustworthy, honest, dependable. Surely she would care enough to reunite us with our daughter, reassure us, ease our minds? She didn't respond to us except for the one evasive email. We were left bewildered, we could not figure out why this was happening.  We have sent emails to our daughter, none have been answered. We have sent gifts, not knowing if they have been opened. We sent birthday cake, ice cream. We can't call or text our daughter,  no one has provided us with Elizabeth's new phone number. Our daughter either removed the SIM card, or threw her phone away she once had, who knows what happened to the phone?  Certainly not us. After all this time we still pay the bill in hopes she will turn the phone on again. We tried to reach out, but Elizabeth didn't respond. During the summer of 2021 we saw a picture of our daughter Elizabe

 On June 18, 2022 I got up the nerve to drive to Roeburgh, Georgia in Running County to see our daughter. This would be a four hour drive.  I had no expectations. I only wanted to tell my daughter I love her and that I am here for her should she ever need me.  Since it was such a long drive, I got up very early. I wanted to be there early enough in the morning so most likely Elizabeth would be there. I knocked on the front door, and Dean Colt came around from the side door. Dara Colt did not come outside, my daughter did not come outside.  Why did they refuse to come outside? Dean Colt was cordial, he did not yell at us or threaten us. I told him I only wanted to tell my daughter I love her, and I am here for her should she ever need me.  I simply said since my daughter has not come outside, I would call and request a welfare check just to make sure my daughter was okay. He did not object. I was hoping maybe an officer could talk her into coming outside.  We waited for the deputy to ar

  Our daughter told us she was going to spend the night at a friend's house. She said she would text me to come pick her up. She took her computer to play video games. We had no reason not to believe her. We trusted our daughter. Our daughter gave no indication she was planning to move out or move half way across the state to live with her former high school teacher.  When Elizabeth didn't return we tried texting, and she didn't respond, we tried calling Elizabeth no response. We put her photo on Facebook telling anyone if they see her to immediately call 911 because she was missing. We called police reported her missing. We were living our worst fears our daughter was missing. I felt I was going to die right then at that moment.   We later found a note in Elizabeth's room saying she moved out to stay with friends, and not to contact her. The note sounded nothing like our daughter and read like Elizabeth was coached as to what to say. We have a difficult time believing