CANCELED PARENTS

 Good Morning. What a beautiful day, it rained last night and the sun shines this morning. I thank God he has brought me one day closer to the day I will reunite with my daughter. I thank God for giving me life to live another day.  Sometimes when we are going through grief, we lose sight of God's wonderful creation. He created this world for us. We let doubt and fear creep in our hearts and minds. We have to believe and trust him. We can follow the darkness or we can follow the light. We can be hopeless or we can be hopeful.  The devil sent lost souls to come to my Facebook page to curse at me, use their middle finger, laugh at me, tell me what a horrible mother I must be. They tell me how it is my fault she is gone. They try to bring me down.   I lost count of the middle fingers I have deleted, but you can see the laughs for yourself. I am astonished at the amount of people that find it funny we are apart from our daughter. The amount of people taking the time to laugh and insult

  The mockery and insults continue. People will go out of their way to try to hurt you. The list has grown. I have deleted and blocked about 60 people from my Facebook page so far.  I tried to kindly tell them if there was nothing for them to see please move along. Still they return to comment with a middle finger, or laugh at me and others.  They can try al they want to bring me down. Please pray for their lost souls,  they may not realize the wickedness they allowed into their cold hearts. I am human, and I am not perfect, but I do pray for guidance. I know the world is wicked and cruel. I can only do my best. Right now the best I can do is pray for the wicked, even if it appears they are not deserving. I have learned several things from attempting to share my post with others: The outcome of our public school system People are often hypocritical People enjoy laughing at other people's misery People enjoy spending time bullying others There are more bullies commenting than nice

 Our daughter was born on New Year's Day in 2023. It was one of the best days of my life. I wasn't able to hold her right away because I had a cesarean, I was so happy after finally getting out of the recovery room when I was able to feed her.  Yes, I breastfed her, and was sure to eat as healthy as I possibly could for her. I only chose baby skin care with the most natural ingredients, and even used cloth diapers. My husband ended up in the ICU right after I got home from the hospital.  It was a rough start. I lost both my brother and mother during her first month of life. It was hard going to the hospital to see my mom, so soon after having a baby, I could barely walk. All I knew was I had this beautiful daughter that seemed to smile back at me and it was enough to make me forget all the pain. Elizabeth was very beautiful as a child; she had bright blue eyes and strawberry blond curly hair. Everywhere we went people admired her beauty. I remember being on the Marta train in A

  I decided that I would create a Facebook page, and I did a small ad for my intro post. On Thanksgiving morning out of 69 people who liked the post, 17 people think the post is funny. This us up 4 laughs from yesterday.  Please explain how a grieving mother should be laughed at? Please explain how grieving parents should be laughed at? There has also been so much criticism. The ratio of critical derogatory comments seem to outweigh the positive. It is so difficult to believe how cruel people can be. There is such a lack of compassion towards others. No empathy of what people could be going through. When did it become acceptable to bully people? Why does it appear evil is considered good, and good is considered evil? What has happened to people? Are there a great number of lost souls? Here my husband and I are, we agreed our usual Thanksgiving meal would not be doable this year. It would only bring us tears. It is Thanksgiving, we both woke up in tears. How can people be so cold as com

 We sent emails to our daughter, without response. Last year I sent her a coat, I thought it would be cold and she did not take her coat with her. I thought it would keep her warm. maybe she didn't like it.. We sent pajamas, slippers, treats, roses, birthday cake, and ice cream. Never heard a word. Well last year we wanted to send treats for Christmas. We went to the store, there were shortages, so we got what we could. Inside the box of treats, we put a visa gift card. I also got a faux throw and a pillow to match. I thought she would like that for cold nights.  We contacted the various shipping companies, and it was too late to ship for her to received it before Christmas. We set out to hire a private shipper. It was expensive. We love our daughter. We didn't think of that, we just wanted her to know we love her and thought of her. We asked our son to please contact her, see if she did indeed receive what we sent. A simple yes, I received it, or even a simple thanks would hav

People often think I should have been able to depend on the education system to do something, that surely Dara Colt violated some sort of ethic's code. Maybe law enforcement? Nope they did nothing. Was GA BOE possibly negligent? It is hard to say. Where are the investigation records? Who investigated?  A lawyer suggested we get guardianship over our daughter, and force her to come home. We choose not to do that. We did not want our daughter to feel like we were holding her hostage. We never tried to force her to do things against her will. She had some thoughts about the Brittany Spears situation, and she was against that.  So as parents we are criticized no matter what choices we made. All I know is our daughter never said she did not want to live here. She never said she hated her name and wanted another name, She never said she wanted a new set of parents. Yet here we are today.  You can keep on spinning it anyway you wish, but 18 year olds don't just suddenly decide they ar

 It had only been a few weeks since Elizabeth had left. Dara Colt the Delaire High School teacher was evasive, and didn't communicate. My husband and I had made a Facebook page as we were seeking answers. Facebook offered free ads for the page, so I took advantage, thinking someone would know something. Maybe people did know something and did not want to talk. Maybe they were blind and clueless and knew nothing. As parents we were an emotional wreck, we were frightened for you daughter Elizabeth. There was no shortage of kicking us when we were down. I didn't understand. Instead of asking questions, such as why did our daughter leave so suddenly? Why did our daughter not communicate she wanted to move out of the area? Why was our daughter with a former teacher from 3 years ago? Why was Dara Colt avoiding us? Why did Dara Colt not reveal our daughter was with her and safe? No one asked questions, instead they just took it upon themselves to do everything they could to degrade us

  Another unanswered email to Dara Colt from 11/2021.The truth should be clear as day.  Why did no one see or notice?  Or were they all part of her devious plan? Dear Mrs. Colt- I have noticed that you have still not contacted us, and choose to ignore that we exist. We are Elizabeth's parents,  our daughter lives under your roof. Are you telling lies to our daughter? Are you contributing to her remaining  estranged from us?  The way our daughter ended up living under your roof is sick and twisted, and based on deceit and lies. Elizabeth told  us she was going to spend the night with a friend, but instead went to live with you. You can spin this any way you  wish, it doesn't change the facts. The fact is while we were worried out of our minds, you didn't have the decency  to inform us that our daughter was safe. That is sick and twisted. I am unclear what you expect us to think or believe. All I know is what I have seen. You, along with your friends,  attempt to present an i

This email was sent to Mrs. Colt Oct 2021. As usual no response. Does she think I am invisible? I exist. I am my daughter's mother, and I will always be her mother. I suspected from the beginning her motives were sinister. What else am I to believe? she along with those I have contacted that work from the school system must think I don't exist, but here I am.  Mrs. Colt- We don't expect you to talk to us, but I have something to say to you. I don't appreciate your having your friends tell lies about us online like you did. You should be ashamed of yourself. You are nothing more than a coward.  The facts are we are Elizabeth's parents and we love her dearly, nothing, nobody or no set of circumstances will ever change that.  Your friends claimed that we were taking the dog to a high kill shelter. Remember that? How dare they. The facts are Elizabeth got a puppy in November. She promised to take care of the puppy. We trusted her with that responsibility. The fact is sh

 Another email ignored. Not one person responded. Names changed of course to protect identity.   To whom it may concern We filed a complaint about an unethical teacher. You were responsible to investigate and take action. You are entrusted with the care of children to make sure that each and every teacher that teaches in a classroom acts in a professional and ethical manner. In the case of our daughter lines were crossed, and people choose to turn a blind eye.  Anyone who knew about this and did nothing to stop these inappropriate actions is responsible either directly or indirectly. You failed to protect our daughter, you chose to do nothing. At some point the truth about what has taken place will come out. We intend to hold each and everyone who failed to take action to prevent this from happening both professionally and personally responsible.   Our daughter is still living with Dara Colt, the teacher teaching at DeLaire High School. She publicly declared she adopted a daughter. Our

This email was sent March 3, 2021 to the principal of DeLaire High School. To be fair she did give us a call, even if she did not do anything to help us. This is the exact words, only the phone number is omitted, and the names and places are changed to protect identities. Ms. Swartz- We have reason to believe Dara Colt invited our daughter Elizabeth Barre, a former student, to live in her home. The circumstances are suspicious. The fact that she blatantly lied when confronted is very concerning. We have contacted law enforcement, they are aware of the situation. We also intend to notify the superintendent.  We are concerned for the safety and wellbeing of our daughter, and other students. If she has done this to our daughter, who is to say she is not communicating unprofessionally with other students. Andrew Barre Abigal Barre cellphone numbers were provided

To all those fake influencers  and groomers disguised as helpers, teachers, mentors, leaders, dishonest politicians or whatever you choose to call yourself and Dean and Dara Colt the couple without children of their own, as it appears you groomed my daughter to become your daughter.   you are so cruel and wicked  any kindness you have displayed is only hypocritical while others may be blinded to your pretentious nature I will never be fooled nor could anyone who opens their eyes your heart is so cold and hard  it can only break all that it touches you have violated the most sacred bond you have broke the bond between a child and parents who love and now are filled with the sorrow  you so clearly left behind you make the demons of hell look like saints You are so villainous  demons are waiting to crown you queen and king one day all the children struck by your venomous poison shall have it slowly wear away as they open their eyes and see through the fog you so cleverly made the light of

 About 10 days ago this email was sent to the principal, superintendent, and even Ga State Board  DOE. No response. o to everyone who has asked me did the school do anything, why didn't they do anything. Your guess is as good as mine. Not only did they ignore us as parents, they never bothered to tell us where we could get help. They allowed a teacher under their supervision adopt our daughter, change her name, and drive a wedge in our relationship. This is the exact email sent on Nov 4, 2022. Only the names and places changed to protect identities. This is in the state of Georgia.     To whom it may concern As parents are we to believe there was never any inappropriate relationship between our daughter Elizabeth Barre now possibly known as Carol Colt and the DeLaire High School English teacher Dara Colt? As a parents of a daughter who suffered mental illness and had multiple suicide attemtps are we to believe that our Daughter Elizabetha Barre now possibly known as Carol Colt, in

 Back in March of 2021 when the first FB page was started, one of Dara Colt's FB friends Lacy Hellerbent posted something odd. She stated she took in a troubled young lady. My friend asked if this was some fettish of they had, taking in troubled young ladies and keeping them from their families? I would hope not. These days you never know, weird stuff happens all the time. . My friend, she gets angry, like me she doesn't understand how this could have happened . While we are blocked from Dara Colt's Twitter and FB, I am curious. My friend ,.  A while back a friend told me that I must check her twitter. and there it was a tweet declaring she celebrated adopting a daughter.  How could this happen? I did not want to believe it. I still can't believe it. It hurts to my very core. When I think about it it breaks my heart my eyes tear up, I choke, I feel as if I will die. How could our daughter do this to us? Why does she hate us so much? we sit here and long for her day afte

This is a copy of the words in the letter we sent to GA DOE The names and places have been changed.I say the words because I had to retype it all and change all the names. Here we are more than a year later. Now this teacher that was reported for an inappropriate relationship has declared publicly to have adopted a daughter. Our daughter's name has changed to reflect the teacher's last name and a new first name. What conclusions are we to come to as parents?   March 22,2021 Dear Sir/Madam: We are writing to report an inappropriate teacher and student relationship. The relationship between Mrs. Dara Colt, who teaches at DeLaire High School in Running County and our daughter Elizabeth Barre. We have notified both the principal and superintendent but they have been reluctant to take any action against Mrs. Colt. Our daughter Elizabeth, suffers from severe anxiety and depression,self harm, and is on 2 different medications. She has attempted suicide multiple times. One night last y

 Have you ever noticed the retaliation whistleblowers endure? They have opened their eyes to truth, and spoken out only to be ridiculed. Those with positions of authority have the power to cover up and deflect their wrongdoings making the whistleblower's attempts seem futile. Some whistleblowers are successful in pointing out the truth, while others are not.  We tried reaching out to the DeLaire High School teacher Dara Colt, our attempts were futile. When we spoke of this publicly we were slandered, ridiculed, accused of slander, called pieces of shit, toxic, malignant, narcissist, manipulative, and this went on and on, mostly by people connected to Dara Colt in some way. A lawyer even wrote us a letter telling us to stop interfering in her job, and even called our attempts misguided.  No one would listen.No one noticed. it seemed like no one cared. Those connected to Dara Colt came in droves and droves, while Dara Colt remained silent. The gaslighting was unbelievable. How

 Have you ever bought a new car? Me Abigal Barre purchasing a brand new car? Only once! Buying a car was something I was supposed to do with my daughter Elizabeth. An experience I was suppossed to share with her. When I was pregnant with Elizabeth in 2002 my husband brought home a new car one day. Our car was old and worn. I fell in love with that car. As fate would have it the car did not last forever. It broke one day. Having a family that loves and cares for us, we were given a car. I was grateful but sad at the same time. It wasn't the car I wanted that I would have picked out for myself. My car that I loved sat is disrepair. I grew to love the car. Cupholders that spilled my drinks and all, I love this car. My daughter Elizabeth referred to the cupholders as futuristic.  I wanted to keep our old broken car, even though I knew it needed a whole new motor I wanted to keep it. I wanted to fix it one day and give it to our daughter Elizabeth. That didn't happen. When it came t

 Around mid March 2021, I posted a picture of our dog along with a link to the song Brandy by the O'Jays. If you're not familiar with the song, it is about a man who misses his dog who ran away. Sometimes people can relate to lyrics in songs, some songs remind people of their feelings. I believe I removed the post, I know I removed the comments. Our daughter wanted this puppy, she assured us that she would take care of him. Elizabeth was a responsible pet owner, she took him to the vet, and purchased the best food for him, toys, and treats with her own money. I didn't want a puppy right then because it hadn't been long since we lost our dog. But I did want my daughter to be happy, so we agreed to allow Elizabeth to get this puppy. I believed in my daughter, and trusted Elizabeth to honor her commitment to care for this dog. This was just one of the reasons her leaving so suddenly didn't make a lot of sense to us. Out of frustration I did send an email that stated &

 Would it be suspicious I were a teacher had a secret relationship with a former student who moved 4 hours away behind her parents back?  If I were a teacher and she moved in with me 3 years later after she turns 18, could you please look the other way?  If I were a teacher and ignore the parents when they ask about their daughter I could not have any ulterior motive could I?  If my husband and I suddenly adopt an adult daughter and change her name behind the parents back this would be okay if I were a teacher? Would you trust me to teach your kid if I did this?  Would you mind if I just kindly threaten to have the parents put in jail should they step on my property to attempt to visit their daughter again if I were a teacher?  Oh and please don't ever think that I could have ever possibly violated any ethics if I were a teacher after all I did wait until after she turned 18 to let her live with with me adopt her and change her name right?  Oh and please if I were a

  Here are are 3 very real actual emails we sent to Mrs. Dara Colt that went unanswered. We Changed the names. Did Mrs. Colt ignore us because she had plans to adopt our daughter? Did Dara Colt plan to adopt our daughter from the beginning? Please have Elizabeth  get in touch with her mom & dad. we have no other way to get in touch with our daughter.  Thanks! Could you please tell Elizabeth that her MOM & DAD love her? Can you please tell our daughter that her MOM & DAD miss her? Can you please tell Elizabeth to call home? As you know, we have no other way to contact her. THANKS! Dear Mrs. Colt , We understand you may not have children of your own, and may lack the understanding of how parents think and feel. Most parents would find it alarming that you had a secret relationship with their daughter or son. Most parents would find it alarming that you wanted to keep the relationship a secret.  Most parents who have a son or daughter would find it alarming when the

 When our daughter first left we started a Facebook page. The page was started after we found out where our daughter was.  When we first found out our daughter was at Delaire High School teacher Dara Colt's home. We were shocked we did not understand. We wondered what people would think. This was weird, it made no sense. Was there anyone who would be willing to talk to our daughter and tell her we love  and miss her?  We were searching for answers. We were confused as to why our daughter just up and left. We were confused as to why a former high school teacher let us worry with despair about our daughter, why she wanted to hide our daughter. Why would a teacher of all people do such a thing?  We asked for prayers for our daughter. We said we missed her, that her pets missed her. We said we love her. It did not make sense that our daughter would just up and leave us, and leave her birds, her puppy and even her cat. Elizabeth loved them she loved us. I was in for a rude awakening. I